Hi guys, most of you faced already and some don't
like me, everything that i did have to be extra careful.

Wife pregnant and i'm expecting my 1st baby.

I need some of your advise how to face such delicate
situation facing pregnancy period till wife in labor.

There is some myths and some true factors on which
i have to consider both sides.

Any tips pantang larang, dietary guidelines will appreciated.
anyway.. this is for reference to others aswell.

so far that i know dont eat nanas, tembikai, bubur kacang hijau
and so on.....

Please help!

Thanks
Reinier

Bro, makes sure she take the asid folic pills. Unless she can't take eat then have to eat something that can supply folic in her food. Nenas NO NO. When passed few months, different treatment. Let's go thru together gether lah =) Excited nyerrrrrr!

Yup, went for check-up and doctor already pass her Folic Asid pills for a month supply. 1 pill per day. I also provide her Anmum Materna which also includes folic asid and high kalsium untuk tulang baby.

Nanas NO NO? mmm searching around pasal makanan sejuk. pada aku
semua makanan sejuk nih..hehehe.. durian panas heh?

Okay Nenas tolak tepi and also Air Kelapa..

need more need more....

anyone can help me?

please.. anything... thank you

p/s i did check google... most of it is foreign dietary guidelines
local (malaysian) kurang nih....mmm

Wahhh good news for you, is a good news for us. Pantang larang... mulut kena jaga, tak leh celupar sangat... kalau nampak yang pelik2 tu jgn ditegur. Movies yang pelik2 cerita tak leh tengok sampai wife deliver (like my time - tak dapat ler tengok Pirates of Carribean).

Somemore, when wife craving for something (jangan yg pelik2 pula dia minta - kereta baru ke, hehehe)... you had to fulfill it. I saw one case, husband buat dunno bila wife minta beli makan (tak ingat apa ler), then bila anak membesar-tak habis-habis air liur mengalir.

Ada orang kata minum soya kalau nak anak kulit putih, tapi ada orang jawab tak leh selalu, nanti bila baby kuar... kulit terlalu sensitif.

Tu jer lah, kalau ada tips lagi, i shall share. Congratulations bro.

shahril78 wrote:

Congratulations bro.

Thank you bro, that is one good advise indeed. Cerita james bondm okay kot kekekek... yup kekadang mulut gua pung celupar macam selipar gak. Hope this 'expecting' i try to control myself and keep it in coolest stage. hehehe

pasal soya bean dan kicap pun ada dengar gak, as for me, healthy baby is more important.. hitam putih ada manis-nya.

mmm baru perasan lembut betul bicara aku sekarang nih kekeke

Hi Sifus Highwaystar,

Congratulation....!!!!

Just my 2 cents based on my previous experienced.

Don't let your wife drink soya too much.... It will let your son/daughter's skin
too sensitive... It happen on my son.

If can, advise your wife take 'spirulina'. It might be good. My wife practised eating that during her pregnancy period.

If you want to search on internet, search any mummy's blog. Sometimes
there were some pregnancy woman shared their experience through their own blog.

Counting your days to become new daddy...it might be interesting...kekekekkekek....

Paling penting..... take care of your wife's feeling... sometimes it's very sensitive.... sometimes it will effect to your child also...
hahahaha...org tua2 kata lah......

Good Luck!

Wah..CONGRATS lg bro!..unfortunately i dun have any experience in this,so i will refrain myself from taking part in this thread..kekeke

p.s: baby recaro seat bler nak beli??..hehe

Okay coming towards the six months, u need to always standby a bag with all the mommy & baby stuffs (kain batik, baju, lampin, etc.). The bag need to be with you all the time, wherever you go (meaning whenever u drove, make sure the bag inside the car). Yup, yang penting baby sihat, cukup sifat & normal.

Lupa lak ya... due June i guess?

hehehe... best lar jadi bapak nih...
yup, agak agak due june or july.

berg, thanks errrr Recaro seat? aiseh... check the price already... ranging 2k... MAKKK OOIII.

lempeng... spirulina is good also. will consider that. tapi nak tanya advise doctor betul betul takut nanti over fed with vitamins mineral such... nanti effect baby plak. Anyway, spirulina mungkin buleh ambil after 5 months pregnant. Thanks man!

Shahril78.. wooahh never come across the batik thingy...mmm betul bro!
thanks again.

highwaystar wrote:

Shahril78.. wooahh never come across the batik thingy...mmm betul bro! thanks again.

Some modern mom doesn't prefer to wear batik when leaving the hospital, but up to every individual.

Don't forget to think about names for the baby too... so later on, after birth, tak kelam kabut pula nak ke JPN sambil mencari nama.

Do a lotsa walking (for the mommy la), when it reaches the due date. So orang kata beranak senang nanti...true oso.

the more we discuss this, the more excitement i get!
you guys has been supporting. thanks..

she loves wear batik, especially season ones...hehehehe.

Yes bro. Memang excited. Even with my 2nd baby, It's different kind of excitement. Wondering how he'll looks like (since we knew its a boy hehe).

When my wife expecting my first child (lil' princess lah), me too once vomit non-stop. Old people said coz the bapak sangat sayang anak hehe.

We bought a book (we called it Manual for our kids) from MPH. It has all the guide from ur wife pregnant till the baby reached 3 years old. Very very helpful. Will quote few tips fer u later bro.

p/s according to my wife, for my first child, she drank lots of air kelapa muda. the results - lil' princess skin is smooth n clean like silk! That's after the fifth month lah.

Errmm getting near to the due date, u have to decide the method of delivery. Normal - epidural, normal normal etc. or Ceaserian (keluar kut tingkap hehe). Get the Gynecologist to explain further.

and .. lastly, selamat berpuasa bro kekekek =P

For some reference :

www.mothercare.com.my/...les_01.htm
www.pregnancy-info.net/

shahril78 wrote:

For some reference : www.mothercare.com.my/...les_01.htm www.pregnancy-info.net/

Wow these site helps... especially mothercare. thanks shahril.
mmm... lucky i'm a bit smart bout this, ever since shes under maternity, the first thing i bought her its tuna sandwich, now i stack lots of tuna (in can) for her to eat..kekekeke its tha kalsium thang

no problem.