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#1: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Fri Nov 07, 2008 7:22 am
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Hi guys, most of you faced already and some don't
like me, everything that i did have to be extra careful.

Wife pregnant and i'm expecting my 1st baby.

I need some of your advise how to face such delicate
situation facing pregnancy period till wife in labor.

There is some myths and some true factors on which
i have to consider both sides.

Any tips pantang larang, dietary guidelines will appreciated.
anyway.. this is for reference to others aswell.

so far that i know dont eat nanas, tembikai, bubur kacang hijau
and so on.....

Please help!

Thanks
Reinier

#2: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: aRRrgghh, Location: KeranaMu Malaysia

Posted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 1:19 am
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Bro, makes sure she take the asid folic pills. Unless she can't take eat then have to eat something that can supply folic in her food. Nenas NO NO. When passed few months, different treatment. Let's go thru together gether lah =) Excited nyerrrrrr!

#3: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 1:25 am
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Yup, went for check-up and doctor already pass her Folic Asid pills for a month supply. 1 pill per day. I also provide her Anmum Materna which also includes folic asid and high kalsium untuk tulang baby.

Nanas NO NO? mmm searching around pasal makanan sejuk. pada aku
semua makanan sejuk nih..hehehe.. durian panas heh?

Okay Nenas tolak tepi and also Air Kelapa..

need more need more....

anyone can help me?

please.. anything... thank you

p/s i did check google... most of it is foreign dietary guidelines
local (malaysian) kurang nih....mmm

#4: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: shahril78, Location: AnFieLd

Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 1:48 am
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Wahhh good news for you, is a good news for us. Pantang larang... mulut kena jaga, tak leh celupar sangat... kalau nampak yang pelik2 tu jgn ditegur. Movies yang pelik2 cerita tak leh tengok sampai wife deliver (like my time - tak dapat ler tengok Pirates of Carribean).

Somemore, when wife craving for something (jangan yg pelik2 pula dia minta - kereta baru ke, hehehe)... you had to fulfill it. I saw one case, husband buat dunno bila wife minta beli makan (tak ingat apa ler), then bila anak membesar-tak habis-habis air liur mengalir.

Ada orang kata minum soya kalau nak anak kulit putih, tapi ada orang jawab tak leh selalu, nanti bila baby kuar... kulit terlalu sensitif.

Tu jer lah, kalau ada tips lagi, i shall share. Congratulations bro.

#5: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 3:11 am
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shahril78 wrote:

Congratulations bro.

Thank you bro, that is one good advise indeed. Cerita james bondm okay kot kekekek... yup kekadang mulut gua pung celupar macam selipar gak. Hope this 'expecting' i try to control myself and keep it in coolest stage. hehehe

pasal soya bean dan kicap pun ada dengar gak, as for me, healthy baby is more important.. hitam putih ada manis-nya.

mmm baru perasan lembut betul bicara aku sekarang nih kekeke

#6: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: lempeng7,

Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 3:50 am
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Hi Sifus Highwaystar,

Congratulation....!!!!

Just my 2 cents based on my previous experienced.

Don't let your wife drink soya too much.... It will let your son/daughter's skin
too sensitive... It happen on my son.

If can, advise your wife take 'spirulina'. It might be good. My wife practised eating that during her pregnancy period.

If you want to search on internet, search any mummy's blog. Sometimes
there were some pregnancy woman shared their experience through their own blog.

Counting your days to become new daddy...it might be interesting...kekekekkekek....

Paling penting..... take care of your wife's feeling... sometimes it's very sensitive.... sometimes it will effect to your child also...
hahahaha...org tua2 kata lah......

Good Luck!

#7: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: -berq-,

Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 4:18 am
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Wah..CONGRATS lg bro!..unfortunately i dun have any experience in this,so i will refrain myself from taking part in this thread..kekeke

p.s: baby recaro seat bler nak beli??..hehe

#8: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: shahril78, Location: AnFieLd

Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 4:25 am
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Okay coming towards the six months, u need to always standby a bag with all the mommy & baby stuffs (kain batik, baju, lampin, etc.). The bag need to be with you all the time, wherever you go (meaning whenever u drove, make sure the bag inside the car). Yup, yang penting baby sihat, cukup sifat & normal.

Lupa lak ya... due June i guess?

#9: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 4:37 am
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hehehe... best lar jadi bapak nih...
yup, agak agak due june or july.

berg, thanks errrr Recaro seat? aiseh... check the price already... ranging 2k... MAKKK OOIII.

lempeng... spirulina is good also. will consider that. tapi nak tanya advise doctor betul betul takut nanti over fed with vitamins mineral such... nanti effect baby plak. Anyway, spirulina mungkin buleh ambil after 5 months pregnant. Thanks man!

Shahril78.. wooahh never come across the batik thingy...mmm betul bro!
thanks again.

#10: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: shahril78, Location: AnFieLd

Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 6:42 am
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highwaystar wrote:

Shahril78.. wooahh never come across the batik thingy...mmm betul bro!
thanks again.

Some modern mom doesn't prefer to wear batik when leaving the hospital, but up to every individual.

Don't forget to think about names for the baby too... so later on, after birth, tak kelam kabut pula nak ke JPN sambil mencari nama.

Do a lotsa walking (for the mommy la), when it reaches the due date. So orang kata beranak senang nanti...true oso.

#11: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 6:54 am
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the more we discuss this, the more excitement i get!
you guys has been supporting. thanks..

she loves wear batik, especially season ones...hehehehe.

#12: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: aRRrgghh, Location: KeranaMu Malaysia

Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 3:10 pm
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Yes bro. Memang excited. Even with my 2nd baby, It's different kind of excitement. Wondering how he'll looks like (since we knew its a boy hehe).

When my wife expecting my first child (lil' princess lah), me too once vomit non-stop. Old people said coz the bapak sangat sayang anak hehe.

We bought a book (we called it Manual for our kids) from MPH. It has all the guide from ur wife pregnant till the baby reached 3 years old. Very very helpful. Will quote few tips fer u later bro.

p/s according to my wife, for my first child, she drank lots of air kelapa muda. the results - lil' princess skin is smooth n clean like silk! That's after the fifth month lah.

Errmm getting near to the due date, u have to decide the method of delivery. Normal - epidural, normal normal etc. or Ceaserian (keluar kut tingkap hehe). Get the Gynecologist to explain further.

and .. lastly, selamat berpuasa bro kekekek =P

#13: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: shahril78, Location: AnFieLd

Posted: Tue Nov 11, 2008 3:19 am
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For some reference :

www.mothercare.com.my/...les_01.htm
www.pregnancy-info.net/

#14: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Tue Nov 11, 2008 8:09 am
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shahril78 wrote:

For some reference :

www.mothercare.com.my/...les_01.htm
www.pregnancy-info.net/

Wow these site helps... especially mothercare. thanks shahril.
mmm... lucky i'm a bit smart bout this, ever since shes under maternity, the first thing i bought her its tuna sandwich, now i stack lots of tuna (in can) for her to eat..kekekeke its tha kalsium thang

#15: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: shahril78, Location: AnFieLd

Posted: Tue Nov 11, 2008 8:12 am
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no problem.

#16: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: jackyhong,

Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2008 4:58 am
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congratulation brother highway!

pregnant mother and baby and every human has 100 trillion cells.
everyday those cells craving for 114 different nutrition to regenerate new cells to have good organ and good system....during night/rest time.
carbohydrate breakfast / skipping breakfast is WRONG! because carbohydrate turns to sugar and that is only ONE nutrition for your body.

Healthy Breakfast :-
1) feed with cellular nutrition
2) energy food with less carbohydrate , mainly Protein
3) water

Jacky Hong
Nutrition Coach

#17: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2008 5:53 am
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Wow... thanks jacky.. it helps a lot.

Now both of us practice cereals and dry fruit ie raisins and milk for breakfast.
NO MORE NASI LEMAK. hehehehe

#18: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: aRRrgghh, Location: KeranaMu Malaysia

Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2008 6:04 am
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No more Neelas? hehe

highwaystar wrote:

Wow... thanks jacky.. it helps a lot.

Now both of us practice cereals and dry fruit ie raisins and milk for breakfast.
NO MORE NASI LEMAK. hehehehe

#19: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2008 7:08 am
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aRRrgghh wrote:

No more Neelas? hehe

highwaystar wrote:

Wow... thanks jacky.. it helps a lot.

Now both of us practice cereals and dry fruit ie raisins and milk for breakfast.
NO MORE NASI LEMAK. hehehehe

Neelas still okay hehehe.. for me only lar kekeke

#20: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: harry, Location: Petaling Jaya

Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2008 1:25 pm
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My Man...First thing first i wanna apologise for not joining u guys for sometime now.....Going through stages where every men and women experience in life...BUT ANYWAY MY FRIEND....DONT FORGET TO REMEMBER THIS DAY CAUSE, ITS THE DAY YOU RECEIVE THE BEST NEWS,HAPPIEST,EXCITEMENT IN YOUR LIFE. REMEMBER THAT.....AND YESSS...WIFEY WILL HAVE TEMPER AND WHAT NOT...IMPORTANT IS THAT U ALWAYS THERE FOR HER TIL DAY COMES..ANOTHER ADVISE BESIDES FOOD & PANTANG, YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE SHE DOES SOME XCERSISE.DESIGN FOR PREGNANCY CAUSE IT WIL HELP DELIVER EASIER N MAINTAIN BODY FITNESS. OR NOT SHE WILL BE THE GRUMPIEST WIFE EVER....CONGRATULATIONS BUDDY!!!!!!

#21: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Wed Nov 19, 2008 10:00 am
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harry wrote:

My Man...First thing first i wanna apologise for not joining u guys for sometime now.....Going through stages where every men and women experience in life...BUT ANYWAY MY FRIEND....DONT FORGET TO REMEMBER THIS DAY CAUSE, ITS THE DAY YOU RECEIVE THE BEST NEWS,HAPPIEST,EXCITEMENT IN YOUR LIFE. REMEMBER THAT.....AND YESSS...WIFEY WILL HAVE TEMPER AND WHAT NOT...IMPORTANT IS THAT U ALWAYS THERE FOR HER TIL DAY COMES..ANOTHER ADVISE BESIDES FOOD & PANTANG, YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE SHE DOES SOME XCERSISE.DESIGN FOR PREGNANCY CAUSE IT WIL HELP DELIVER EASIER N MAINTAIN BODY FITNESS. OR NOT SHE WILL BE THE GRUMPIEST WIFE EVER....CONGRATULATIONS BUDDY!!!!!!

hahaha thanks harry... Grumpiest? eerkkk cabuutzzz hehehehhe

#22: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: bruised,

Posted: Wed Nov 19, 2008 2:49 pm
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Congratz again bro for having your 1st baby. As for tips... dun have any really during pregnancy periods. U guys read more about nutrition n stuff than me. For me, i just let her eat watever she wants... no prob. Nenas n all... she did eat it but not sure during when in pregnancy. Even spicy food etc... jsut as long she can eat well she'll be fine.

Its also a known FACT that women can smell better during pregnancy. so pls avain kissin her right after smoking. Its common for them to not even tolerate their husbands smell... with perfume or no. Soo just tolerate lah hehe

Sex is also not a problem. Just not too rough Wink

during the 1st 3 mths. For the last 3 mths ( 6-9mths ) also not a prob.... just not too ofter lar. Cause out semen can cause uterine contractions. Infact in hosp we sometimes encorage couples to be together more often if shes over due.

Its also normal for some women to eject milk when they're in stress or aroused even BEFORE childbirth. Soo... dun waste

As shes more into pregnancy months, her legs may swell up, more lenguh2, cranky, bitchy etc. Soo buy new shoes n might as well enjoy irritating her. Lift her legs up when sleepin which helps in reducing those veins from appearing more.

Oh yeah org melayu lamer kater....if bini lg berseri, kulit main cerah waktu pregnan...girl baby. If she becomes more pigmented in the armpits etc... baby boy. hehe

last words.. enjoy these pregnancy periods together. who knows u might want to experience it more after this hehe. ( i got 4 already mahh! )

#23: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: aRRrgghh, Location: KeranaMu Malaysia

Posted: Wed Nov 19, 2008 11:55 pm
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dr bruised good one =) .. agreed with what u said. fer me the 2nd one is quite challenging. .. All the best bro Highwaystar!

#24: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Thu Nov 20, 2008 1:20 am
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Thanks again bruised and aRRrgghh, yup and i agree every single thing you guys advise me. Already went for First Trimester check-up. Guess what, I saw my first baby heartbeat!!!! manyak active woorrr (syukur alhamdullilah). The friendly gynecologist is Dr. Raja Juhaidah and also an administrator forum for www.alamhamil.com

Sensitive smell senses, yup she did manyak terrer one..kekekeke.

Thanks again guys!

p/s will upload my baby photo kekeke

#25: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2008 3:25 am
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ahahaa... an update, now sensitive stage, she can't take any smell, hyper sensitive. Garlic smell is tha most, she hated it so much. Sometimes me have to sleep far far...kekekeke... vomiting is quite serious. makan tak tentu, suka suka, kekadang setakat rasa saja dah cukup.

Powder milk have to stop occasionally, fresh milk Okay. Fruit juice okay.
mmmm... me bit tired basuh kain, masak, bersih rumah hehehe but loving it everyday (sometimes) hahahah.

#26: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: aRRrgghh, Location: KeranaMu Malaysia

Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 2:33 pm
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On behalf of Highwaystar, he is officially a FATHER to a healthy baby boy today! Congrats!!!

Welcome to the club - club of tak cukup tidor malam etc kekek =)

#27: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: irman, Location: Ampang/KL

Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 2:39 pm
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wah.. congratulations.. Alhamdulillah.. Smile

#28: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: jeembo, Location: Car_Junk

Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 4:36 pm
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Alhamdullilah...congrats to the new father hehehhehee...so any TT to that muahahhahahaa.....

#29: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: Mr_Bimmerasta, Location: The Republic Of Penang

Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 7:31 pm
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Syukur bro....selamat menjadi papa!! hehe.... & welcome to highwaystar junior!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#30: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: shahril78, Location: AnFieLd

Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 11:39 pm
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congratulations to Bro Highwaystar on becoming a father!

#31: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: boy_mtech, Location: Selangor

Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 11:40 pm
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Syukur alhamdulilah... selamat menjadi papa mithali juga... hehehehe...

#32: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: tombstone,

Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 2:42 am
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congratulations reinier!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)))

#33: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: -berq-,

Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 2:12 pm
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Congrats congrats! wah kene bagi baby recaro seats for present la nih!

#34: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: kura2,

Posted: Thu Jul 16, 2009 4:44 am
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congratulations mr highwaystar! sorry lambat wish Smile

#35: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2009 5:17 pm
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Hahahah.. alhamdullilah syukuran to mighty Allah SWT. Now wife and my baby back at our home sweet home already. Thank you to all your kind wishes. NOW WE ARE FAMILY.

Thank you again.

#36: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: tombstone,

Posted: Sat Jul 18, 2009 3:17 am
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good for u bro! glad to hear all is fine!

#37: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: highwaystar, Location: Kola Lompuer

Posted: Sun Jul 19, 2009 5:06 pm
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Thanks bro tombstone.

#38: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: bedoqstar,

Posted: Tue Jul 21, 2009 5:37 am
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bro congrats for being a daddy

#39: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: aRRrgghh, Location: KeranaMu Malaysia

Posted: Tue Jul 21, 2009 6:56 am
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abang bedoq bila lagi *wink*

bedoqstar wrote:

bro congrats for being a daddy

#40: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: bedoqstar,

Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2009 10:28 am
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abg bedoq belum ada rezeki...:(

#41: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: BlackMonster,

Posted: Thu Jul 30, 2009 4:08 am
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congrats bro.. now u r a puff daddy!!! hahahaha..
sila open table at ali maju PBD... kekekekek..
anyway.. abg bedoq manyak lmbat wooo...

#42: Re: Pregnancy Period Author: saintdastar, Location: Petaling Jaya

Posted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 3:00 am
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wahhh... conglat plesiden! I is oso going to make babies soon!

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